Female Anatomy continued
Your G-spot – How to Find It and What to Try Once You Do
Some women find G-spot stimulation to be extremely
pleasurable and even orgasm inducing. The G-spot,
named for German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg,
is an area of soft, spongy tissue about one inch in
diameter, typically located about one to three inches up the front wall of the vagina. To find it, insert your
finger a few inches inside your vagina,
then curl it toward the belly, as shown
in the diagram to the right. Once you've
located it, you can reach it with an
insertable vibrator, such as ICONIC RABBIT, or one with a curved head,
such as FORM 6.
Your Anus – Handle with Care
Much like the vagina, the skin around your anus is incredibly sensitive. Many women enjoy stimulation
of the perineum and the area near the anal opening, while others enjoy anal penetration. Because the space between the vagina and rectum is very thin, penetrating the anus can sometimes also provide G-spot stimulation. Though anal sex is becoming more accepted (and popular), not everyone wants
to dive right in. Try inserting a finger, vibrator or a butt plug before moving on to penile penetration. FORM 6 and the Njoy anal plug both work well for this. LITTLE CHROMA is nice and slim, but if you're going to use it for anal penetration, lace a cord through the two holes in the cap so it
can be retrieved safely. Be sure that any kind of anal play involves plenty of lubrication – unlike the
vagina, the anus provides no natural moisture. Never insert anything that may get stuck and never
move anything (penis or otherwise) from anus to vagina – the bacteria can cause infection. Learn
more about safe anal penetration in our section on types of stimulation.
Your Brain – The Most Powerful Sex Organ of All
Never underestimate the power of your mind when it comes to getting off. Your
thoughts, feelings and imagination can bring you to the brink of orgasm (and maybe
beyond). Some women enjoy reading erotic books to jumpstart their fantasies. Check
out Violet Blue's annual anthology of the Best Women's Erotica. Others like to fantasize
about people they've met (or want to meet) or sexy situations they've been in (or want
to be in).
Think about what turns you on.
Now think about it while touching yourself. Fun, right?